It’s a common sight. A friend’s car breaks down, and he’ll spend hours trying to fix it himself, even if he’s not a mechanic. Or someone is clearly overwhelmed at work, but they just keep pushing through, refusing to admit they’re struggling. We see this a lot, and often, it’s men who seem to have the hardest time reaching out. But why is that?

Is it pride? Is it some deep-seated belief about what it means to be a man? The reasons are complex and often hidden beneath the surface. This isn't about blaming anyone, but understanding why this pattern exists is key to helping ourselves and the men in our lives.